- Ask everyone, Ask early, and Keep asking – it may take a while to build trust
- Never ask when the potential perpetrator is in the room or nearby
- Always ask in a confidential environmentÂ
- Do not use family members or members of the victim or abuser’s community as translators
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Don’t ask just as a tick box exercise – show genuine interest. Actively listen, believe, reassure, don't criticise
- Dont try to take control and don't make assumptionsÂ
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Ask open questions
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Don’t sideline domestic abuse as not as important as other issues
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Respond appropriately – ask what they would like you to do, ensure you know about signposting options
- Explian what you will do next
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Follow up – don’t assume that it has gone away because you asked
Suggested Questions
- If you are calling - Are you safe to talk?Â
- Is it safe to go home?
- Are you frightened of your partner?
- How are things at Home?
- Do you mangae / cope at home?
- Do you feel able to ask questions? Do you make decisions together?Â
SafegaurdingÂ
- Has the immediatte safeguarding of those affected (including any children or adults at risk) been secured? Consider referrals to children's Social Care / Adult Social Care
Adult Socuial Care Referral form
Children's Social Care Referral form
- Has consideration been given to completing a Dash RIC?
- Has a safe way to contact the client in the future been extablished?
Initial Safety PlanningÂ
- Explain the use of 999 for emergenciesÂ
- Advise victims to prepare a bag in case they need to leave in a hurry; spare keys, money, clothes, bank cards, passport etc
- Ask if a neioghbour knows of the situation and could be asked to contact the police in an emergencyÂ
- Consider the use of a code word / phrase with a family member / frined if assistance is needed in an emergency
- Provide safety advice on the use of social media
Sign Posting
- Explain options available depending on the risk - Outreach / IDVA / MARAC
- Gain consent for referrasl - consent not required for a referral to MARAC but it is preferred that the victim is awareÂ
- Provide details of any other services that may be able to provide supportÂ
- Provide details of the National Domestic Abuse Helpline - 0808 2000 247
Recording
- Document how your service is supporting the victimÂ
- Name of alledged perpertratorÂ
- Relationship of alledged perpetrator to any children /adults at riskÂ
- Details of referral madeÂ
- Details of any other signpostingÂ
Please acces the link to view the Dash RIC SWAYÂ
For professionals working with Vulnerable Adults/Adults at Risk, you will need to follow
For professionals working with Children and Young People, please see: